when both of you rest securely under the wings of a sovereign Lord.
"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior." (Ephesians 5:22-23 ESV)
"Indeed, none who wait for You shall be put to shame..."
(Psalm 25:3 ESV)